Vanessa Hudgens Not Only An Expert On Photography, But On Relationships As Well
Teen movie queen Vanessa Hudgens has revealed how you know you're in a successful relationship...it's when you don't have to work at it, because that would be, like, hard and stuff:
"If you really love someone, you shouldn't have to work at it," the 19-year-old tells [COSMO Girl]. "You finish each others' sentences and have the same sense of humor."
Oh, really. And here I've been spending the better part of two decades attempting to do things like work out our problems and resolve differences and make an effort. What was I thinking?
The article also describes how Vanessa, when Zac walked into the room, ran over and gave him a big kiss and rubbed his belly in an affectionate way, and this spoke more than her words can say. If that's how people gauge true love, I truly despair for young people today.
Let's ask little Vanessa her opinions on this same subject in about twenty years, when Zac Efron has a bit of a potbelly and his career is in the tanker. I guarantee she'll have a different opinion, because this sort of thing only happens in silly teen movies and Barbara Cartland novels. Sure, after a while you know what the other person is thinking, but that is just a byproduct of spending time together, not necessarily the sign of a successful relationship. And having the same sense of humor is nothing more than two people who...share the same sense of humor. Um, HELLO?
A friend of mine once told me that true love is when you're willing to wash the other person's dirty underwear. I'd take that a step further...a successful relationship doesn't just happen, it is a choice. You make a choice every day to have a successful relationship when you are picking up their nasty, smelly, stiff socks off the floor for the umpteenth time (that day), when you are listening to Beethoven's Fifth Fart Symphony, when you're tripping over the trash that they were supposed to take out yesterday, when they have a headache (again)...
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