Sexuality and Freedom of Expression in the Adult Dating Experience
Free expression is one of those gifts that the world has earned through blood and sweat and today the internet has become a great source of free expression and nowhere else is it more expressed and deserved than here in the good old USA. Our female partners have embraced the internet by using it to express their sexuality and this is demonstrated in the countless uncensored adult dating websites from around the globe.
The first time I ventured into this new medium, I was astonished by the extent women went to express their sexuality. Their profiles are filled with full page nude photos of themselves and their written text is both highly sexually provocative; geared towards seducing whoever reads it. Some of the photos are so graphic in nature that one could classify them as hardcore porn and today with the videos and webcams they are bolder and more sexually graphic. Once i joined and posted a simple profile, I did not even have to write to any one of the women before i was bombarded with countless emails and winks and mind you i am not at all pretty. The sheer amount of total nudity, sexual activity and expression was mind consuming to behold. It felt like I had just returned into puberty, i had reached the promised land of major sex, every man's dream. Having just turned forty at the time, i was surprised by the number of twenty somethings that wanted to contact me and that set my blood boiling to a very high degree of anticipation. It was very exciting entering this newly found world and being the adventurous and spontaneous lad that I am I dove right into it and soon found some hookups within my local area. I will not go into detail as to how my dates went but I will tell you this, they were an eye opener.
Now my premise is this, if my own daughter grew up to embrace the world of online adult dating, how would I feel about it? I have already crossed that line and delved into it. How will I react in fifteen years time when she turns eighteen if I find out that she is indeed venturing into this world and lord knows what kind of technology will be available at that time to help enhance this experience online? The way I see it just like any parent would today, I will just have to sit back and cry myself to sleep if I ever found that she has delved into online adult dating. Most of all I hope that I will never get to find out just like many parents today do not. Growing up and experiencing life is something one has no complete control over anyone and we as parents teach and groom our children for the best, the rest is up to them.Continued on the next page