The Seven Deadly Dating Personality Types
There really are seven deadly dating personality types. Some people are aware of them, some not. Others may understand a few of them and make an effort not to be them or date them, while other people don’t care, and then wonder why their dating experiences always end up unfulfilled; seeing them back at the dating drawing board, again and again – and again.
Seven Deadly Dating Personality types to avoid:
The Pleaser:
The unfortunate reality is that some people tell lies or over exaggerate to seem better than they think they are or appear more likable. But, I am talking about something different. A thing so evil, so insidious, so subtle, and yet prevalent in dating that it is often overlooked in the initial stages and that is, pretending to be a person that you are not.
What I mean by this is pretending to be, more honest, successful, kinder, and younger, be a non smoker when you are a smoker, more empathetic and more giving that you really are. Therefore luring your date into thinking you both have the same value systems in life. “Oh wow, how amazing! yes, I am exactly the same as you!”
The Controller:
This is someone who feels that the way they think and operate is the ‘right” way to live. Anyone who doesn’t understand this or can’t fit around their lifestyle, and opinions of how they think others should behave towards them, is then “wrong” and needs to change. These people are overly sensitive to their own needs and think that they are incredibly kind and caring towards others.
They will gently or otherwise demand that you act the way they think you should – if you don’t, they sulk or shut you out, until you apologize and come around to their way of thinking. These people are very controlling either outwardly or quietly and it’s not always obvious until you are well into dating them. They usually play the victim – Their catch cry - “ Look at how nice I am to people and how they always take advantage of me!”
The Aesthetic:
This is the type of dater who chooses a potential date based on covertly analyzing (via Google, Facebook or any other means), their dates partner suitability status.
Finding out if possible, the persons credit score, arm candy score, social, business and lifestyle status and their vulnerability to psychological manipulation – Their catch cry - “How can this person improve my life style ambitions!”
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