TheFurFiles - Email Entropy, Her Boyfriend's Back, Jailbird Blues
Madame Floretta “Fern” De Villiers, a.k.a. “Amanda Fox” is an author of erotic fiction and commentary. This is her weekly advice column.
Friday, November 26th, 2010.
Just the other day, I was on my husband’s computer and I found some emails that he’d received from another woman. They were fairly recent and very graphic. Naturally, I did a little further digging and I discovered more letters, this time, ones he’d sent to her. Fern, I’m too embarrassed to say what he wrote, but it involved a lot of licking and kissing and penetration of various sorts.
What really baffles me is that Doug’s always been a very loving partner. Not once in our five years together has he made mention of wanting out. Furthermore, he’s been even happier than usual lately.
So what gives? Do you think he’s ACTUALLY cheating on me? Or is this some kind of weird cyber-sex thing? Either way, I am terribly hurt and angry.
And I know what you’re thinking, that I deserve what I get because I was snooping, but I would never normally look on his computer. I trust him to a fault. My laptop was on the fritz though and I had an important deadline to meet. What should I do?
Stunned In Sydney
That rat bastard! Anyway, you are right about the snooping thing. I don’t usually condone it – it is a sign of mistrust and negativity – though in this case, I think it’s a good thing you did it. As you have learned, it IS possible to trust someone to a fault.
And what’s that you say? Your husband seems happier lately? Wow, what a coinkydink. One man, two women. New sex, plus the old, comfortable sex. His cake and eating it too. What more could a guy want? And is he cheating on you? Please, tell me that YOU are not that stupid.
For some reason, this whole scenario reminds me of “The Wizard of Oz” with you as Dorothy. I see you hanging around in Kansas all happy and carefree and then boom, this crazy cyclone hits. Suddenly, you find yourself in the land of munchkins with a wicked witch on your tail – the wicked witch being the fact that your husband is engaged in a nefarious affair with some random bimbo he met on the Internet.Continued on the next page