How Not to Travel Like an "Ugly American"
It's part of travel's enduring mythology: The American tourist, unable to manage even a few sentences in any language other than English, and oblivious to the culture and traditions of other countries.
The unflattering image of the "Ugly American" is a bit unfair, perhaps, but the "USA Number 1!" attitude persists among many American travelers, so Dean Foster, self-styled master of global etiquette and cross-cultural trainer to the world, is trying to do something about it.
He wrote five books on intercultural global solutions, and cultural literacy, because he says that what we don’t know about cultural differences could ruin our vacation-or screw up a business deal. Or just make us look bad in the eyes of a host country.
He points out that well-meaning advice, like "when in Rome do as the Romans do" is perfectly accurate but useless advice - if you don't know what the Romans do, and why.
For example, Dean says, you should never bring a dozen red roses to a dinner party in Italy. You should send them the next day. And be sure they’re not red because that improperly implies romance, and anyway,Italians prefer an odd number of flowers.
Didn’t know that? Most people don't.
Foster ‘s snapshots of cultural “do’s and don'ts” are insightful and fun, ranging from the simply social to the seriously corporate.
Say you’re in Australia,in the middle of a tense business discussion that's going no where, and you say,"Can we table this for awhile?" But your Australian colleague keeps right on talking about exactly the topic you want to put aside.
What’s wrong with her?
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To "table something" in Australia means to bring it forward for discussion, to put it on the table. This is the opposite of what Americans mean, so watch your American idioms.