Dear Oprah... Thank You
Thank you for the QUARTER OF A CENTURY of service to the big me/we. I am astounded at the huge evolutionary impact you have made, and was made through you (god's grace in testimony). Thank you with all of my heart and mind, and thank you for all of your hard work!
I am writing to say that you are the only person I have seen, who has shared the wholly truth, so simply.
So, and in testament to that fact, let me repeat the points you made:
1. people feel unworthy
2. people wanna feel heard and validated
3. people must figure out, and embrace, their calling with passion.
4. people's calling (and light) will be in service to others AND the greater good.
5. people must take responsibility for the energy they put forth.
Ok, so here is where the elaboration comes (and a problem arises):
Yes, people feel unworthy. And that's because most of us are. In fact, the evolutionary process of life was designed this way. And this is so we can EXPERIENCE love.
For we can't know and experience love, without knowing and experiencing pain. And the breathing in and out of god, is the infinite cycle of disharmony, coming into harmony; and harmony, disintegrating into disharmony.
Now, our feelings of unworthiness are exacerbated by the fact that we wanna feel special. Or as you say it, we wanna feel validated and heard. And yes, when attempting to help another, we must initially help them feel validated and heard.
HOWEVER! after they have been validated and heard, we must use 'compassionate confrontation' and 'honorable authenticity'; in synergy with the knowledge, that the people we are attempting to help must USE the pain of affliction, and burn it as fuel for the journey. And this is because change is so very difficult, but change we must, if we are to evolve.
You see, our NARCISSISM has overtaken us. And we have created a societal system where people are arrogant and feel entitled. In other words, we have egoistically synergized our unworthiness, with the delusion of specialness.
THUS CAUSING AN EXPONENTIAL MELTDOWN OF PLANET EARTH!
In truth, we have to synergize the virtual world of the mind, with the physical world of the body, so we can evolve our paradigm, and therefore change the world.