How do you make it 'home'?

Author: Jessica Rosenberg
Published: May 13, 2006 at 8:39 pm
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When I first learned about the Silicon Valley Moms Blog I was really interested in joining, but it got me to thinking about how living here defines me as a mom and as a person.
I don't really consider myself a 'Silicon Valley Mom', just 'a mom who happens to live in Silicon Valley'. I think I would be the same mother no matter where I lived. My values would be the same. C's toys would be the same and, I truly think that, no matter where we lived, my relationship to her would be the same. Granted, she's only one. When she's older and more influenced by where we live and who she goes to school with things might be different!

My feelings about this might stem from the fact that I, myself, don't feel different because I live in Silicon Valley. I grew up in Paris, France. I went to international schools and was exposed to people from different walks of life from a very young age. I have always been around educated and well traveled people. I have always taken cultural diversity for granted. The downside to this is that I've experienced globalization first hand, and, for all that we want to think that the San Francisco Bay Area is different from the rest of the world, it really isn't. We may be at the forefront of technological advances, but next year everyone in Paris will also be sporting an iPod Nano, and maybe even a better European model!It might be because over the years I have lived in three different countries and over 6 different cities, but I can't seem to get attached to this area. I met my husband in Boston and, after spending a short year there, dragged him back to Paris with me so I could finish my Masters. We moved here 13 months after that because his family called every week while we lived in France to ask us when we were coming home. This was 5 years ago. When we decided to move here the economy was booming and we thought we'd have it made. We flew into SFO (the San Francisco airport) on October 17, 2001, just as the world as we knew it was coming to an end.I've lived in Silicon Valley for over 5 years now and I still feel like a newcomer trying to get to know the lay of the land. I have lived in London, England, Paris, France, Boston, MA and New York State, but nothing has prepared me for living in Silicon Valley. I am no stranger to travel yet I can't come to grips with the extremes that are present in the Bay Area.

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Jessica Rosenberg is an aspiring novelist and freelance writer who blogs daily at It's My Life... (http://www.itsjessicaslife.com) and posts frequent reviews at The Lemonade Stand (http://roselemonade.blogspot.com). …

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