Why Women Fake Orgasms - The Meryl Streep of it All!
I was born in 1951 and sex was a pretty taboo subject in those days. In fact I heard my grandmother tell my very sick mother not to worry if she could only have limited sex. My grandmother kept repeating the advice that it was only for “baby making” anyways. There was no sexual education in High School as the school board frowned upon it, and health movies issued very little on the subject. The only sexual information I had when I got married was from my father’s girlie magazines he hid in his bottom drawer.
Being petrified of the pain they kept mentioning when the hymen was broken I remained a virgin until I married. The first few months of married life was brutal and our relationship deteriorated after that. There were no fireworks, no passion, just fear and an uncooperative husband.
For years after the marriage ended I faked orgasms and not one of my partners knew. I thought I was the only one when in reality sixty percent of women fake it. Only twenty five percent of men have done it and I imagine it is pretty easy to realize when a man fakes.
Or is it?
Women on the other hand can be brilliant actresses like Meryl Streep to quote Jerry Seinfeld and feel they must put on a show. They do not want their partner to feel they are not the prefect lover or know that they are insecure.
With medical conditions put aside some women have a difficult time getting close to their partner on an emotional level. That is exactly what happened to me. It took years of getting the right mate to have that "Harlequin Romance" euphoria and once I found him I never looked back.
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